Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ, Hardcover

"Emotional Intelligence" by Daniel Goleman "Emotional Intelligence" by Daniel Goleman, first published in 1995, remains a relevant and insightful book that explores the importance of emotional intelligence in our lives. Despite being slightly outdated, the book offers valuable information and perspectives on emotional intelligence, particularly in relation to children. One of the most interesting parts of the book is the documented work on emotional intelligence and children. Goleman illustrates how teaching children to observe and regulate their emotions can lead to better conflict resolution and empathy. This is a skill that he believes should be taught from a young age, as it is essential for creating a more balanced world. Although there have been advancements in neuroscience, biology, and psychology since the book was published, Goleman's cautious and plausible approach, using words like "probably" and "might," sets his book apart from others in the field. The book provides a good introduction to the subject for laypeople, despite being a little dry compared to more modern pop-psychology books. One potential drawback is that Goleman's examination of psychopaths may be unsettling for individuals dealing with autism, as autism was not well-known when the book was written. However, Goleman acknowledges that not all people with empathic deficits become criminals, and he has since written another book on autism. The book also highlights the importance of emotional and social skills in education, although the implementation of Goleman's advice in schools remains limited. Nevertheless, the book provides hope for increased awareness and adoption of emotional intelligence in both parenting and education. Overall, "Emotional Intelligence" is a worthwhile read for those interested in the topic, particularly if they want to gain a foundational understanding of emotional intelligence and its applications.